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"And always let your conscience be your guide."
Jiminy Cricket
Ones are based in the Body
Center. Their issues revolve around being right and good.
They are detail-oriented and like to keep their environments and
themselves neat and orderly. They are productive and continually
strive to do things perfectly in all aspects of their lives. They
have an "inner critic" in their minds that constantly
reminds them of what they "should have done." Being
right and avoiding being wrong is important to Ones.
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Best Example of a Famous
"ONE": MARY POPPINS |
Celebrities |
Public Figures |
Characters |
Harrison Ford |
Pope John Paul II |
Capt. Jean-Luc Picard, Star Trek |
Anthony Edwards |
Rudolph Guliani |
Mary Poppins |
Martha Stewart |
Jerry Falwell |
SNL’s the "Church Lady" |
Cybill Shepherd |
Hillary Clinton |
Inspector Javert, Les Miserables |
Katherine Hepburn |
Ralph Nadar |
Robespierre |
Nicole Kidman |
Mary Baker-Eddy |
Dudley Do-Right |
Celene Dion |
Margaret Thatcher |
Lucy from the Peanuts comicstrip
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Dr. Laura Schlesinger |
Miss Manners |
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Ones play the parts
of the idealistic, upright crusaders. Their roles range from the
truly humanitarian types like Nelson Mandela through the regular,
dependable good guys like Harrison Ford and Anthony Edwards, to
the self-righteous, judgmental vigilantes like Jerry Falwell or
Inspector Javert in Les Miserables ("And those who follow
the path of the righteous shall have their reward.")
Ones have a definite internal picture or standard by which they
measure everything—including themselves. They are conscientious,
idealistic, principled, rational, self-controlled, purposeful
and constantly striving to be without blame. They are deeply committed
to the achievement of their ideals. At their best they exemplify
integrity and wisdom.
They tend to suppress the anger and frustration they sometimes
feel because they see themselves as good and right, and "good"
people "shouldn't" feel anger or frustration. Ones often
have an "inner critic" in their mind that continually
reminds them of all the things they "should" have done.
They can become nit-picky, moralistic, impatient, and constricted.
Typically fastidious and orderly, they sometimes feel as if they
are the only ones who care enough to do things the right way.
People are often attracted to Ones because of their clean, crisp
appearance, their love of the high moral and ethical ground, their
orientation to detail and their stability and dependability.
- I know the right way to do things.
- I seem to worry an awful lot.
- I'm almost always on time--or early.
- I feel guilty if I relax too much—and
even a little relaxation is probably too much.
- I like being self-disciplined and am able
to accomplish a great deal.
- I can get resentful when I feel others aren't
trying as hard as I am.
- I know how to have fun—provided it's
time to have fun and when I'm supposed to have fun.
- I just know that if everyone else lived
like I live, the world would be the way it's supposed to be.
- I feel that if I want something done right,
I'd better do it myself.
- I am reliable and I follow through.
- Some people see me as judgmental or critical,
but they have no idea how much harder I am on myself than
I am on anyone else.
- I often feel like the weight of the world
is on my shoulders, and if I don't come through, who knows
what will happen?
- I hate being criticized, so I try to do
everything perfectly.
- I show my love for people by working hard
on their behalf.
1The Reformer, The Humanitarian,
The Good Person |
The main character (a One of course) sees
himself as good-the righter of all wrongs, the keeper
of order and justice, and the final judge of what's right
and proper for the good of all, The theme of this life-story
is to enforce his judgments on himself and on the world
around him. |
Resentment. |
The need to live
life the right way, improve self and others, and avoid
anger. |
Of being bad, defective or wrong. |
To be good, have integrity, be "right." |
"What's
out of place?" What's right or wrong in any situation,
what needs to be improved. Life is about continually working
towards a set of high internal standards. |
Anger |
Serenity |
Reaction Formation
-- that's when you unconsciously turn a feeling or a behavior
into it's opposite so you don't have to realize you are
experiencing an emotion that would make you "bad." It's
like when you really feel someone off, but you sexually
attracted to someone but act like a prude instead of showing
your real interest, or when you really want to tell smile
and say something nice instead thinking you "should" feel
kindly towards them-so you "convince" yourself (unconsciously
of course) that you really feel that way. |
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